Friendship Center — The Friendly Finch Fall 2024

Dear Friends,

In recent months, Friendship Center has begun to significantly expand our programs as a result of the generous support from our community. This support has empowered us to begin developing a comprehensive Dementia Caregiver Resource Hub, offering the Herencia Latina program for Spanish-speaking adults, and continue enhancing our diverse array of life enrichment activities—all tailored to meet the unique needs and interests of our members.

I’m also thrilled to share some inspiring results from our recent caregiver survey, which reflect the positive impact Friendship Center has had on the well-being of their loved ones. According to family caregivers, since attending our program:

  • 82.5% of participants are less lonely or bored
  • 75% seem more alert and engaged
  • 87.5% seem happier and more content
  • 100% have their interests considered in the development our programs
  • 35% have improved their eating habits at home
  • 97.5% have their physical and emotional needs fully met
  • 100% have benefitted in some way from being part of Friendship Center

These results reaffirm what we all know—Friendship Center is more than a place for care. Our Center is a magical place where people thrive, connect, and feel a renewed sense of purpose. Whether through our Adult Day Program, our Herencia Latina social group, or our early-stage memory program, Connections, we remain steadfast in offering compassionate, personalized care for every individual.

As we look ahead, I’m excited to invite you to our upcoming events, including a Community Listening Session on October 9th to discuss expanding our services in Carpinteria, and our 12th annual Wine Down, which will be held with a spooky twist at the Arlington Theatre on November 1st. We hope to see you there to celebrate and support the important work we’re doing to enrich the lives of those living with and impacted by dementia.

It is my privilege to share with you the incredible strides we’ve made together in ensuring that our loved ones live with dignity, joy, and purpose. Thank you for being a part of this.

Warmly,

Kathryn Westland, MPH

Executive Director

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In this edition of the Friendly Finch…

  • Dress Up & Wine Down with us on Nov. 1st
  • Program Activities: Day Program, Herencia Latina & Connections
  • Program Events @ Friendship Center
  • Carpinteria listening session on 10/9
  • Educational Workshop: AFib on 10/11
  • “How do I?” Hot Topics for Caregivers
  • Easy Lift FAQs
  • Hygiene & Care for a loved one
  • No-cost care consultations now available in English and Spanish
  • Program highlights from Summer 2024
  • Friendship Center in the news

Proudly hosted by our Event Committee: Sue Adams, Nathan Bero, Pat Forgey, Jeffrey Krutzsch, Kathy Marden, Marianne Meeker, Shianne Motter and Monica Vidger-Trent

Click to purchase tickets or become a sponsor!

Program Activities

Click to View Our Day Program Monthly Activity Schedules

Please check our monthly schedule for up-to-date activities and entertainment!

In addition to our jam-packed daily happenings, below are a few of our regularly scheduled programs:

  • Cycling without Age: T, W @ 1pm, Th @ 10am
  • Music of Our Lives & Times (SBCC Class): M, W, F @ 10am
  • Art Exploration (SBCC Class): M @ 1pm
  • Dance Fitness: T @ 11:15am
  • Pet Therapy: W @ 12:45
  • Live Music: W @ 1pm, Th @ 10am
  • Art Classes: T, F @ 1pm, W @ 2pm
  • Puzzles & Games: M, W, Th @ 2pm, F @ 1pm
  • Walking Club: M @ 2:30pm
  • Flower Arranging: W @ 1pm (currently seeking volunteers for this program!)

Herencia Latina

Un grupo social para adultos mayores

Miércoles desde 10:00am – 12:00pm,

Almuerzo (opcional) 12-1pm

deysi@friendshipcentersb.org

La herencia latina se refiere a las personas que son originarias o descienden de alguien de un país latinoamericano.

En FC honramos la cultura e historia hispana y latina. Reconocemos las contribuciones que los estadounidenses con raíces en países de habla hispana han hecho a la cultura y sociedad de los Estados Unidos. Realizamos diferentes actividades como gimnasia cerebral, taller de cine, yoga y relajación, y musicoterapia, entre otras.

Connections Program

Guest speaker class series for older adults

Tuesdays & Thursdays 9am-12pm,

Lunch (optional) 12-1pm

esther@friendshipcentersb.org

Fall speaker series topics:

  • 10/3: Equine polo fun facts and history
  • 10/8: Ward Kimball’s Asinine Alley Cartoons
  • 10/10: The Fire Lookouts and Aircraft Warning Service Observation Post of the Los Padres National Forest
  • 10/15: Fun facts about India!
  • 10/22: Humor Me? Laughter Yoga
  • 11/5: Taipei, Taiwan- Travels and Adventure in this Asian City
  • 11/7: Manzanar: One Internment Camp with 10,000 lives and Stories
  • 11/14: TBD- Antioch University
  • 11/19: OWL Wisdom series: Giving A Hoot

Program Events- Open to All

We’re thrilled to share that the next few months will be filled with fun and engaging activities that reflect the seasons, holidays, and interests of our members. From creative crafts to festive celebrations, we invite family members and members of the community to join us in these special moments—there’s always something to enjoy, and community participation is at no cost!

In November, we’ll be hosting a Family Luncheon on November 27th, and in December, we’ll be bringing the holiday spirit to life with our Caregiver Christmas Party (date TBD). These events are a wonderful way to come together and celebrate with our members, and we’re always happy to welcome anyone who would like to lend their support to these meaningful gatherings.

If you’re interested in contributing to the fun by supporting these events, whether through volunteering or sponsoring a specific activity, please feel free to reach out. Together, we can create unforgettable memories for our community!

Click here to get involved in our program events!

Save the date:

Caregiver’s Corner

Help Us Shape the Future of

Friendship Center Services in Carpinteria!

Please join us on Wednesday, October 9th at 5pm for a special listening session at the Carpinteria Arts Center to learn more about Friendship Center’s programs and services for adults living with memory loss and their families.

This session will also provide an opportunity to share input and ideas as Friendship Center expands services to better meet the needs of the Carpinteria community, thanks to a recent award from the Alzheimer’s Association Center for Dementia Respite Innovation.

P.S Free food will be served!

Click here to RVSP
Easy Lift van

“How Do I?…” Hot Topic:

Easy Lift Facts

  • Though they are incredible partners, Easy Lift is not contracted with Friendship Center.
  • The service area is Goleta to Carpinteria but it has to be ¾ of a mile from the nearest bus stop.
  • The Easy Lift application process takes up to 21 days.
  • Easy Lift gives 30 minute windows so that vehicles are able to pick up more than 1 person at a time. The drivers can only wait 5 minutes to pick up each passenger before they must leave.
  • You are given your pick up/drop off window the day you schedule rides so please be aware of what time to be ready.
  • If you miss your ride, Easy Lift cannot always send someone right away and the next available pick up could be 1-2 hours later so please be ready at the times you give their dispatcher for pickup/returns.
  • Easy Lift is equivalent to the bus service and cannot always get you to a destination at an exact time.
  • Rides need to be paid when getting in the vehicle.

**If you need help paying for Easy Lift rides, please contact Friendship Center; we can help!**

Check out Easy Lift’s “Rider’s Guide” for more info

Reimbursement Grant Available for Caregivers:

We are able to provide short-term, reimbursement grants, courtesy of the Mary Oakley Foundation, for in-home care. Contact Amy West for information on the requirements & to apply.

E-mail Amy to learn more

“How Do I?…” Hot Topic:

Encouraging Cleanliness with Respect and Sensitivity

There is no one-size-fits-all approach to this tricky topic but below are a few tips from the Friendship Center team and our community of family caregivers that have helped them in caring for the health and hygiene of a loved one living with dementia:

  1. Change underpants, diapers, or pads as soon as you can after soiling.
  2. Ensure the bottom and genital area are washed daily to prevent infections
  3. Establish and maintain a simple daily routine, such as “Eat breakfast, brush teeth, comb hair,” to reinforce habits.
  4. Sanitary wipes can be easier and more comfortable for cleaning the skin after changing adult diapers or pads.
  5. Consider buying multiples of the same clothing items to allow them to wear a clean version of their favorite outfit while the other is being washed.
  6. Encourage clothing changes by linking them to specific occasions, such as a visit or group event, and compliment how they look in the new outfit.
  7. Model tasks like brushing teeth or applying deodorant alongside your loved one to make the process more comfortable and less intimidating.
  8. Enlist the help of a podiatrist for nail care or switch to an electric razor for safer grooming.
  9. Be prepared to let go if a hygiene task isn’t possible at a particular time; try again later without stress.
  10. Incorporate humor to lighten the mood and reduce resistance during hygiene tasks, making the experience more pleasant for everyone.

No-cost Care Consultations with a dementia care expert now available

Thanks to generous funding from the Arthur N. Rupe Foundation, Friendship Center is proud to announce an expanded suite of caregiver support services at no-cost to the community.

One of our services includes one-on-one consultations for dementia caregivers to assist with care planning, resource navigation & referrals, and disease education. Consultations are offered in English and Spanish.

Contact us to book a consultation

Highlights of Summer 2024 at Friendship Center

We had a color, laughter, joy and fun-filled summer thanks to our fantastic Day Program team (left to right): Ann, Maria, Deysi, Sam, Mary, Nerely,

and Dawwod (who is leaving us this fall as he journeys off to medical school. He’s given his word to return to FC one day to be our in-house physician:) )

Friendship Center in the News

New dementia specialist to help caregivers for free

The Hub is the Friendship Center’s direct response to the community’s request for help during one of the most challenging times of life.

Read the full article

Old Spanish Days dancers bring performance to seniors

Fiesta dancers are bringing their performance to seniors living with cognitive conditions at the Friendship Center in Montecito. During the showcase, it was hard to tell who was having the most fun: The seniors or the dancers.

Read the full article

Friendship Center prepares summer fun for seniors

Friendship Center is preparing a variety of opportunities to help keep seniors in need feel included this summer.

Read the full article

Friendship Center Receives Care Grant

Friendship Center has been awarded a highly competitive grant to enhance the quality and availability of dementia-specific respite care for people living with dementia and their caregivers in South Santa Barbara County.

Read the full article

Thank you for continuing to support Friendship Center as a member of our family, advocate of our work, or benefactor keeping our programs running.

We are grateful to be able to spend our days with the finest of folks and welcome you to come visit us anytime!

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Friendship Center Leadership

Officers

President

CYNDER SINCLAIR

Secretary

MAGGIE MIXSELL

Treasurer

JEFFREY KRUTZSCH

Directors

ZANDRA CHOLMONDELEY

MARTI CORREA DE GARCIA

JACQUELINE DURAN

PAT FORGEY

DAVID SELBERG

STEPHEN SHARPE

MONICA VIDGER-TRENT

JOE WHEATLEY

Directors Emeriti

DAVID BORGATELLO

NEVILL CRAMER

      (In Memoriam)

INGE GATZ

BARBARA GUTMANN

THE REV. GEORGE HALL

      (In Memoriam)

SHIRLEY MANKIN

      (In Memoriam)

MARTY MOORE

HOMER SHEFFIELD, JR.

MARY WALSH

Honorary Committee

RONA BARRETT

JEFF BRIDGES

THOMAS & NANCY CRAWFORD

PAUL DIDIER

VASANTI FITHIAN

ROY GASKIN

ANDY GRANATELLI

     (In Memoriam)

SALLY HALL

ROBERT HARBAUGH, M.D.

ARLENE LARSEN

SELMA RUBIN

      (In Memoriam)

EVA MARIE SAINT

NAOMI SCHWARTZ

      (In Memoriam)

Executive Director

KATHRYN WESTLAND, MPH

Associate Director

AMY WEST, MA

Family Enrollment Director

KIM LARSEN

Program Manager

NERELY DELGADO

Friendship Center | 805-969-0859 | 22-23 Annual Report | friendshipcentersb.org

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