Friendship Adult Day Services update for May 1 — Friendship Center MAY 2019–A Case of the Birthdays

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Mondays & Wednesdays in Montecito
as well as
Mondays & Thursdays
in Goleta:

GOLETA
805-845-7442
Persons w/Memory Loss & Their Caregivers 
1st Tuesday
10:00-11:30am

w/Sandra Rodezno

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MONTECITO 
805-969-0859

 

Veterans Group
3rd Mondays
2 – 3:30 pm
w/Carol Metcalf-Roth, MFT

Military Family Life Counselor

Early Stage Memory Loss/
Mild Cognitive Impariment (MCI)
& Care Partner

1st & 3rd Wednesdays

1 – 2:30 pm
Pre-registration required:
Call 805.892.4259 x 111
Facilitator: Jackie Marston

A Case of the Birthdays
 

 

By Kathryn Cherkas, MIPH
Program Manager, Friendship Center Montecito
 
Everyone experiences memory loss throughout their lives, from forgetting the name of a new acquaintance to misplacing an item. As we age, however, forgetfulness becomes more worrying. Our aging bodies experience changes in a number of ways, and cognitive functioning is no exception. That being said, not all “senior moments” necessarily indicate dementia. Sometimes the reason for forgetfulness, aches and pains, sleepiness, or mood changes is simply “a case of the birthdays.” *
This is my term for natural age-related mental and physical changes. Many people caring for their aging loved ones are hypersensitive to these changes. It is, of course, a good idea to pay attention to such things when tracking potential health conditions. But it is also important to remember what comes with each candle added to the birthday cake-more acquaintances, friends, and family members… more sights, smells, words, and feelings.

 

In 1969, Lorraine* was a single mother with two teenage sons, working nights as a waitress. When asked by a co-worker to babysit his newborn infant for a night, she agreed, but the man did not return the next day and Lorraine was left with the baby boy. For her, there was no option but to continue caring for this helpless child.

And isn’t this just how mothers are? Resourceful and unselfish, caring for whomever is in need. In spring, we celebrate Mother’s Day, also remembering grandmas, aunts, and others who have been there for us through our lives.

 

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